![]() I actually didn’t remember exactly how the article described it, so I Google’d it and found it and read it again, with my now 30 year old eyes (when I first read it I believe I was around 24-25)(how am I 30? I feel I’m having a pre-midlife crisis)(anyway). You see, the three great loves theory goes like this: you only ever get to love three people in your lifetime, and these three people have something to teach you. I remembered the said article, and I realised, this is to the fucking T what I meant by my answer. ![]() And that, my friends, is where the three great loves theory comes in. What I truly meant was, my love for these men was not real love. Which, in hindsight, is a bit harsh, and, also, I’m not sure it is entirely true. I told him the men in my life that I thought I once loved, I didn’t feel they had really loved me back. But I answered thinking of my ex boyfriends and -deep revelation moment coming- the answer was no, I didn’t. ![]() I think he meant in general, as in by family, by friends, by boyfriends. For a bit of context, my therapist asked a very on point question (like he always fucking does!) which was “have you felt loved by the people in your life” or something along these lines. This little clip and also, something my therapist asked me in our last session reminded me of an article I read ages ago that claimed you only love three people in your life time.
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